Life, Planned

If you follow me on Instagram, you know how obsessed I am with my InkWell Press planner. I always love buying new planners for new years, but I'm definitely guilty of buying them and then not using them to their fullest potential. This time it has been a totally different experience! I use my InkWell Press planner every single day.

What I love about it is that it comes with 6 set up videos that include out-of-the-box ideas and helpful printouts that guide you through maximizing each and every page. For example, that bird's-eye view of the year page (shown above)? I used to skip it, but in one of the videos Tonya from InkWell Press suggests color coding it so you know at-a-glance what's happening each month. For me, that means documenting birthdays, vacations, work holidays, appointments, and more.

I love the goal-planning pages that come standard with all of their LiveWell planners. It makes it easy to plan goals from a yearly, quarterly, and monthly view, and helps you keep track of your progress. The monthly goal pages act as prompts that help you reassess where you're at and reroute goals or steps to achieve your goals as needed.

See all the small pentagon shapes on the bottom right-hand corner of the planner above? It's one of the smaller details that helps hold me accountable. I track 3 daily/weekly goals there - for me it's going to barre3 three times per week, drinking 8 8oz cups of water every day, and straightening up every night before bed (cleaning the dishes and putting my clothes away). As the month has gone on, it's actually given me more confidence in my ability to stick to them. Granted, some of the pentagons are only colored in half way depending on how I felt I did that day, but most of them are colored in. It provides me with a quick, visual way to know if I need to get back on track.

I love the monthly mission board pages, too. Sitting down to look at the month ahead and what I want to accomplish helps give my days and weeks more purpose. I love goal setting, but never found the right way to keep track of everything I wanted to accomplish. This layout is perfect for my needs and provides inspiration and discipline for the month ahead.

Probably my favorite point of advice from the set up videos is "take the thinking out of it." I've automated everything I can, from weekly to monthly tasks, chores, and to-dos. I've made a commitment to complete them each week/month on the same day so it doesn't get to a point where cleaning the kitchen or straightening up the apartment becomes an all-day task. It's helped me balance work, life, and my blog, break up larger undertakings into smaller, manageable tasks, and get more done throughout the week so Tim and I can spend quality time together when we're both free. I used to let my life rule me, and would definitely suffer from paralysis by analysis, but now I feel like I'm in control of my time and spend it exactly how I want and need to spend it. 

I've always struggled with living in the present moment - I'm usually thinking about the past or worrying about the future, so my mission statement for this year is: "You create a good future by creating a good present." - Eckhart Tolle. This quote lends itself well to multiple areas in my life: learning how to live more fully in the present and also dedicating time and energy to the things that fulfill me now in order to make mine and my family's future even brighter.

What's your 2017 mission statement? It can be a word, phrase, quote... share below! I'd love to hear it.

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Walkin' in a Winter Wonderland

We're living in a winter wonderland right now! Snow started falling around 5 p.m. yesterday and continued falling throughout the night. Some parts of the city saw 15 inches! We definitely got around 8 inches in parts of our area, so I took advantage of my lunch break and documented some of this winter beauty.

The rest of the country probably looks at us like babies every time it snows, but here's the deal: there are no snow plows in Portland! We don't have enough snowstorms to warrant our own plows, so we normally borrow them from other parts of the state. The problem is they're also having a hard winter. And most of the state doesn't use rock salt because of the environmental and corrosive damage it can cause. So we're just hangin' about in our winter wonderland and NOT complaining. Tim and I LOVE it!

I truly can't do the beauty justice with these photos, but I'm certainly trying! Everything is blanketed in white. Tree branches are trying not to succumb to the weight of the snow, kids are sledding at the parks, there are snowmen in random places throughout downtown. The snow is in its most fluffy, perfect form. So, so gorgeous. I don't want it to disappear!

 

Our Wedding // Part 3

Welcome to part 3 of our wedding story! Part 2 ended with: "When the guys arrived to the house, I was promptly whisked away so Tim wouldn't see me before our "first look," a moment I will cherish for the rest of my life."

Our first look was so, so special - something that I thought you could only see in movies, truly. We debated whether or not to do it, but we ultimately decided to move forward with it because we wanted to look back on this special moment between the two of us for the rest of our lives.

Our photographer asked Tim to wait outside for me and then had him cover his eyes while I walked around the corner of the house. I'm not sure how Tim felt, but it had to be similar to the butterflies I was experiencing. It's such a surreal moment in time - after a year and a half of planning, we're finally here on the morning of our wedding and we're about to see each other all dolled up. It's one of those moments that takes your breath away. I'd say the photos do a wonderful job capturing the feeling:

I love that we get to relive this moment every time we open our wedding album. <3 Pretty quickly after our first look we jumped in our cars and drove a few minutes down the road to the cathedral. We were going to stop by a park for some pictures, but with the unexpected rain, we didn't want to risk all the mud and we were running somewhat low on time. So to the church we went!

When we arrived, we didn't know how to get inIt seemed that all entrances were locked, so we made the most of it and decided to come to the front of the cathedral in front of these big, beautiful pillars and intricate doors and start taking bridal party portraits!

Here are some of my favorites from before the ceremony:

We were able to take so many great photos with the bridal party at the cathedral, so it's hard to narrow them down to just those few above. One of my favorite little "surprises" was the guys' PDX carpet socks. If you're from Portland or have visited Portland, you likely know the reference - the PDX airport had this uniquely patterned carpet for a very long time and you can now find prints of it on almost anything your heart desires - socks, chairs, mugs, magnets, door mats, etc. We thought it was a playful touch ;)

Some of my favorite photos of Tim and I before the ceremony were taken in the courtyard of the church. I mean, just look at how magical these are <3

Next up in part 4: details and photos from the most perfect ceremony where we officially became man and wife. <3

Photography: Gregory Bartning | Hair & Makeup: Chrystal Koivisto | Flowers: Mary Beth Bartel | Dress: Pronovias